Overcoming LonelinessSample

Promise and Purpose

If you are experiencing loneliness, you’re not alone in that. Many people today report feeling loneliness far more frequently than people in previous generations, but here’s what I want you to know: you no longer have to struggle with loneliness. In Matthew 28:20, Jesus promised, “Surely I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Jesus wants you to know Him, experience His never-ending presence, and connect with Him deeply. Talk to Him about your feelings, fears, and dreams.

God brings healing and change to our hearts and lives. That happens in our relationship with Jesus and as the Holy Spirit works in us, but God also designed us to need people deeply. Other people can model Jesus’ acceptance and love for us. They help us know and believe in our true values and identity.

Some may think, “It’s just Jesus and me,” and “All I need is Jesus.” But we can’t forget that we need people. God even looked at the perfect world He had created, and before sin had entered the world, He said that it was not good for man to be alone (see Genesis 2:18). The New Testament uses the words “one another” one hundred times! Most usages of the phrase are in the context of loving one another, supporting one another, and having healthy unity and relationships with one another. This overwhelmingly reveals that we need one another.

We are made for relationships. We cannot heal or thrive unless we have meaningful relationships. So, take a risk today. Invite someone out for a meal or to coffee and ask questions about their lives. Call a friend and see how they are doing. Share about how you’re truly doing and what you’re struggling with. Talk to God and be honest with him about what is going on in your soul. Experience meaningful connection.

Jesus, You promised to be with me, always. Help me to know You better and to love others as You have loved me.

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