The Character Cup

“We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.” Romans 5:3-4

Character is the sum of our attitudes, inner-thought life, and tendency toward action or inaction. It reveals whether you are trustworthy, honest, and able/willing to work hard. Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5–7 primarily encourages us to take on the character of Jesus. It is a beautiful window into godly character. We must help those we disciple grow in character—the summation of who you are on the inside, especially when no one is looking.

Sharing your experience and struggles is always an excellent way to open the discussion.

• Have you struggled with finishing things you start?
• Have you failed to keep your promises?
• Have you been tempted only to do the minimum work required instead of giving your best 100% of the time?
• When did you learn to truly forgive someone that hurt you?
• How are you growing in the fruit of the Spirit as described in Galatians 5:22–23?

These are issues of character, and it is essential to help disciples pursue the character of Jesus that we see in Matthew 5–7. Of course, all character growth comes because of the Holy Spirit’s sanctifying work and the production of the Spirit’s fruit, so it is always essential to nurture the ability to hear and obey His voice. When we disciple others, we should not only be discussing their faith, but we should also be creating greater people of character. These discussions can often be difficult, but they are necessary in discipleship. Character begins in our hearts. We must challenge ourselves to be people of character like Jesus discusses in Matthew 5-7.

Application:

Read Matthew 5-7 and write down the different areas you feel you need to specifically focus on for your character.