On Your OwnSample

Reading the Bible can feel intimidating sometimes. But one simple way of studying Scripture is called S.O.A.P. It stands for "Scripture," "Observation," "Application," and "Prayer." We'll show you how—it's easy!

S: Scripture

If you haven't already, read today's passage of Scripture. Then summarize it in your own words.

O: Observation

Read Ephesians 4:25–32 again.

• What negative and positive actions stand out to you in this passage?
• What does it teach us about how to mend broken friendships?
• What reason is given for why we should forgive others?

A: Application

• What has God forgiven you for? If you don't have an answer, pause and talk to God about something in the past you need forgiveness for.
• What does this passage invite you to do differently in your friendships?
• What's a step you can take this week to prompt you to manage your temper when you feel angry?

P: Prayer

Spend some time in prayer about a broken friendship that needs mending. What do you see as the cause? What can you do to offer forgiveness to the other person? Ask God for wisdom on whether the friendship should continue or if you need boundaries. Then say thank you for all the ways God models love and forgiveness for us.