Beyond Grudges

Read Genesis 28:1–4

Reflection

It seems like most families and many circles of friends contain at least two people who aren’t speaking to one another – and haven’t done so for years. Perhaps you know someone. Perhaps you are someone in this situation. Occasionally, the offense itself is truly heinous: abuse, betrayal or complete disregard. Other times, and considerably more often, even the people involved admit the silliness of the quarrel and are no longer angry about it. But they’re still angry with the person.

It is surprising that Isaac took the time to confirm Jacob’s blessing, despite the disappointment he must have felt about Jacob’s deceit. Isaac’s blessing shows an acceptance from him, forgiveness for his son, and an understanding that God’s Plan for the Israelites would still be fulfilled.

What do you gain when you hold onto anger and disappointment? While an offense may be unforgivable, no person is. Jesus proved that when He died for all of us. Live out what the Scriptures tell us: forgive others, as the Lord has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13). Remember that all situations are redeemable and, like Isaac, learn to trust that God’s Good Plans will still succeed.

Consider and Pray

Who needs your forgiveness and what will you resolve to do about this? Thank Jesus for His forgiveness towards you and ask for His help in forgiving those who have hurt you.