Facing Up

Read Genesis 32:1–5

Reflection

Sometimes, it is not someone else who has caused us pain and turmoil, but our own actions and attitudes. The consequences for us can be just as heartbreaking as are the consequences of things that are done deliberately to us. Jacob had lied, schemed and cheated his brother and it was his time to go back and face up to what he had done.

When was the last time you felt badly about something you had done? You might have fallen back into an addiction, lied about a situation or not shown up for something you were responsible for. There will be times when you have to confront that sin, the consequence, and the people you might have hurt as a result.

Just like Jacob, you won’t always know how people will react when you seek forgiveness and reconciliation. The fear and uncertainty are very real but this is part of owning our mistakes. Humility and vulnerability are always the best approach, and you just have to hope that the response will be a favourable one. At the heart of seeking forgiveness is the hope of restoration, so invite Jesus into that situation, because this is what our Christian walk is all about.

Consider and Pray

Are you feeling weighed down by something you know you need to make right? Perhaps you are waiting for an apology from someone for the way they have hurt you. Confess your sins to Jesus and pray He would guide you with the best approach in asking for forgiveness.