The Mended Rib: A 27-Day Devotional for Men Battling Lust and InfidelitySample

The Power of Confession

Lust thrives in secrecy, and it's in that darkness that it gains its strength. But the moment you confess, you break the power that secrecy holds over you. Though uncomfortable and even terrifying, confession is absolutely necessary for healing. Bringing your struggle into the light is the first step toward true freedom and transformation.

For me, the most life-altering moment came when I confessed everything to my wife. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. The truth opened deep wounds in both of us, and the journey ahead was filled with pain and uncertainty. That year was excruciating, marked by difficult conversations, raw emotions, and countless moments of doubt. Yet, through the struggle, we found immense healing, growth, and a level of transparency in our marriage that I never thought possible. In the end, that hard road brought us to a new place of maturity and trust, a place I wouldn’t trade for anything.

True healing requires support from people who will stand by you in the fight for purity. Those who enable or dismiss your actions are not friends—they’re hindrances. You need accountability, not just for the moment but for the long haul. If those kinds of people aren’t in your life, seek out a trusted pastor or counselor. Healing starts when you surround yourself with the right people—those who can help you stay on the path toward freedom, offering wisdom and guidance as you confront the root of your struggle.

Challenge

Confess your struggle to a trusted friend or pastor today. Ask for their prayer and support.

Prayer

God, give me the courage to confess my sins to someone who can help me. Let this confession be the start of healing. Amen.