Dating

Singleness is truly a gift—a season not to waste, but to lean into with intention and faith. This is a time to lock in with God, grow in wisdom, and discover who you are without distraction. It’s not just powerful; it’s purposeful. And I don’t believe it’s an accident that you’re here. Something in you is craving a fresh perspective, a new way to view this season of your life. God has something new, something life-giving, waiting for you. This is your moment to lean in, trust Him deeply, and embrace the journey ahead with confidence and expectancy.

Single, Secure, & Thriving

Tired of dating from a place of need? Stop the cycle of heartbreak by getting your heart right first.

This 21-day spiritual boot camp, led by Pastor Simon Richardson III and Olaolu Ogunyemi (U.S. Marine, Parent-Child-Connect), moves you from neediness to wholeness.

You will master self-leadership, heal past wounds, and set clear boundaries before commitment. 

Each day includes a devotional, a Daily Detox Action, Reflection Questions, and a Prayer.

Stop waiting for a partner to complete you. Start becoming whole.

BEFORE YOU CUFF: The 21-Day Pre-Relationship Detox

Everyone dreams of a love that lasts but lasting relationships don’t just happen. They are built with the right foundation, effort, and grace. This 3-day plan will help you understand the biblical principles and personal growth needed to build strong, godly relationships that lead to lasting love and healthy marriages. You’ll discover how to invite God into your relationships, communicate effectively, and grow in love that mirrors Christ’s. Whether single, dating, or married, this plan will help you build not just a connection, but a covenant that stands the test of time.

Building Love That Lasts

Why get married when you can cohabit? This plan shows how marriage is different from cohabitation by showing the theological roots of marriage. As we reflect on the biblical concept of covenant, we will see what is so valuable about marriage. Invest in your marriage and learn wisdom for relationships from the scriptures.

Why Marriage | Covenant: The Heart of Commitment

Jesus calls us to shine His light and influence others for His Kingdom. Some friends draw you closer to your purpose; others slowly lead you off course. The people you walk with shape your faith. Are your friendships helping you grow—or pulling you back? 

In this 7-day plan, discover how to reflect Christ, resist compromise, and be a light that leads others closer to Him.



Are Your Friendships Fueling Your Faith?

Kingdom Marriages by Minister Kia Durham is for couples who are dating, courting, or newly married and desire a relationship that reflects God’s heart. Each day offers practical guidance and honest reflection to help you communicate with grace, pursue unity, and strengthen your spiritual foundation. Invite Jesus into every step of your union and build habits that honor God and each other for a lifelong Kingdom marriage rooted in Christ.

Kingdom Marriages: A 5-Day Plan to Build a Christ-Centered Relationship

Waiting for love doesn’t mean waiting to grow. In this 5-day plan, discover how to pray with purpose and faith as you prepare your heart — and your future marriage — for God’s perfect timing. Learn to intercede for your future husband, deepen your relationship with God, and turn your waiting season into one of hope, healing, and preparation.

Dear Future Husband: Trusting God With Your Love Story

Every human being is born into a world filled with voices - some nurturing, some deceptive, and others downright destructive. From the moment we open our eyes, the world begins to tell us who we are & who we are not. 

It names us before we can name ourselves. “You’re not enough.” “You’re too broken.” “You’ll never be like them.”

These whispers- subtle, persistent, and often inherited - shape our sense of self long before we encounter the truth of who God says we are.

Who Told You?

This 3-day devotional invites you to rediscover biblical love from a practical, motivating, and deeply spiritual perspective. Through well-known passages about love, you will find inspiration to heal, grow, and love more authentically—beginning with the love God has for you.