Fostering HopeSample

WHO WILL CRY FOR ME?

She was 15, the eldest of 4 siblings. Life had not been kind. Her parents had died when she was 12, and after living with a couple of different relatives, her aunt had reluctantly taken them in. The basics were provided - food, shelter, education - but there wasn't much emotional connection, so at a young age she took on the responsibility of 'mothering' her siblings. I remember the first day I met her. She had just arrived at the shelter and was very upbeat and smiling. Which seemed strange. When I inquired why she was there, her eyes got more serious. Her aunt had gone on a trip and left them alone. She had tried very hard to take care of them. But they were beginning to run out of food in the house. She was worried, and asked their neighbor for help - the neighbor provided them some food, but also contacted the authorities and the kids were picked up.

She was OK with being at the shelter - OK with not having to stress about providing for her siblings. She was hopeful about the future - she wanted to be a pediatrician and hammered me with lots of questions about college, med school, and what it was like to work with sick children. It was impossible not to fall in love with her spunk and her enthusiasm. She came frequently to the clinic while I was there - at first just to hang out and talk. Then with some minor complaints - an occasional headache or stomachache. Then more serious ones. Weight loss. Sleeplessness. Depression. Her siblings left the shelter one by one, each to a relative. But no one wanted her. And her soul died. Her hope died. Right in front of me. We cry when the body dies. But who cries when the soul dies? Who cries for foster kids? Who will cry for her?