God Did Not Do This To Me: Faith HealsSample

Focus on the Destination

No matter what roadblock you are dealing with, remember that it’s not your destination; don’t let it be your focus. Ultimately, all Christians have the same destination: to live out Acts 20:24, finishing our race with joy by sharing the gospel and the love of Christ with everyone we meet. God has given you an assignment and mission to complete. Don’t quit, no matter what. 

Maybe studying your route, planning a new one, or taking a detour will help you finish your race. I will not tell you what I think you should do, other than follow your heart. When we were dealing with my husband’s cancer, some suggested that I stay completely away from the Internet. Doing research on whatever trial you’re facing can be a means to gather experiences and better understand what you may encounter in your journey. However, some may find too much information is an added source of stress.

You will know what to do; just allow His peace to rule over you. Don’t allow what you read to break or crush you. If it knocks you down, change your reading material, go offline, and pick up His Word. Allow Him to help you stand once more. 

Some friends and family members will give you a deep well of love, support, encouragement, and peace by sharing prayers and Scriptures with you, helping you to focus on the destination. Others may offer unwanted, bold opinions and information that’s contrary to what you’ve learned on your own. Assume that they mean well and try to give them some grace.

Doug often says, “Discouragement is a powerful drug that can distract us from our intended destination, and focusing on our disappointments can lead to disillusionment that will distract us from God’s intended destiny for each of us. During these times, it’s important to remember that God has a plan and a purpose far greater than the temporary circumstances that plague us.”

Any challenge you are facing today is just that—a challenge. Quiet your spirit, listen for God’s instructions for you, and let Him encourage you as you follow His voice. Hold on to a vision of hope.