Spiritual Intimacy as CouplesSample

Who Initiates?

Chuck and Ashley from Indiana, married 13 years

When we were dating, I (Chuck) remember standing in a Christian bookstore, thumbing through devotionals, hoping to find a book that would help us grow spiritually. Yet, each of them seemed to be better suited for engaged or married couples. 

We are so thankful for The Bible App which makes it so easy for couples to complete plans and grow spiritually, together, creating lifelong habits that will protect their marriage! 

For us, growing in spiritual intimacy seemed to be a little easier once we were engaged, but it was still an ongoing challenge.

After we were married, I (Ashley) found myself expecting Chuck to initiate reading the Bible since he was the “spiritual leader.” Now, I have come to believe we are both spiritual leaders in our home, and we’re raising our boys to be spiritual leaders, too. Though God may want Chuck to lead our home spiritually, I believe He also wants me to lead. We are in this together. When I stand before God, I don’t think that God will get me in trouble for asking Chuck to read the Bible with me. Perhaps this thought came from the enemy.

Now, after 13 years of marriage, Chuck regularly plays worship music in the home or initiates watching a RightNow Media Bible study rather than another program. We are in this together. John 10:10 says, “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy.” God’s purpose “is to give a rich and satisfying life.” 

Hope for the Future

We have family devotions each night, but we have been less consistent finding a regular time for couples’ devotions. Recently, we increased our commitment to engage in spiritual growth each night. Sometimes we spend 30+ minutes watching a series and discussing its content. Other times we may only pray a 15-second prayer together. Regardless, we will continue to do our best to push ourselves toward spiritual intimacy.

Reflection

Who typically initiates reading the Bible or prayer? 

Discuss and determine a daily time to read and/or pray together.

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