Who Will Master You?Sample

Pride

Introduction

It’s hard to say that Joseph was indeed proud because we don’t know his heart. In some ways, as depicted in Scripture, Joseph's dreams were simply shared, as a matter of fact, with his brothers and father. Of course, we know that they become real truth by the end of his story. Yet, for those of us who are not named “Joseph,” when we share such words of triumph, they usually are an indicator of a proud heart.

The Reasons for Pride

There are two main reasons for pride. First, we really are good/amazing/special. We have a legitimate claim to our status.

Second, we are told by someone else that we are good/amazing/special. There may be some bias involved, but we claim our elevated place even if it is illegitimate.

• What has been your experience with personal pride? Legitimate? Illegitimate?

The Effects of Pride

Just as there are two main reasons for pride, there are two predominant effects. Number one, we see ourselves wrongly. We mistake competence as our right rather than a gift. We think our excellence is only earned by our efforts when it is a combination of human choices and divine will.

Number two, we see others wrongly. We compare ourselves with others and naturally find “them” wanting and ourselves superior. Pride causes us to look down on others as lesser than. We can’t help but point out their deficiencies. We stoop to scold rather than to serve.

• Have you noticed the ill effects of comparison in your life recently?

Will Pride Master You?

• How can you remember that competence is as much a gift as it is effort?
• What practical expressions of service will you engage in to remain humble?