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Thoughtful Gift-Giving

Scripture: 2 Corinthians 9:7 - "Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver."

In a world where convenience often trumps personalization, Christmas gift-giving can sometimes devolve into a mere exchange of gift cards. While there is nothing inherently wrong with gift cards, they can lack the personal touch that embodies the season's spirit. The Bible encourages us to give as we've decided in our hearts, with cheerfulness and thoughtfulness. This year, let's bring back the heartfelt into our gift-giving.

Gifts have the power to speak; they can say, "I know you," "I care about you," and "You are valued." When we take the time to consider what our friends and family would indeed appreciate, we're not just giving a gift; we're giving a piece of our attention and love. It's about the time to understand the person, their needs, joys, and struggles.

Think about the Wise Men who visited Jesus. They brought gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh with significant meaning and purpose. They didn't just pick up something from the corner store on their way to Bethlehem. Their gifts were thoughtful, intentional, and fitting for a king.

So, how do we replicate this in our own lives? It starts with listening to our loved ones throughout the year. What brings them joy? What are their hobbies? What is something they wouldn't buy for themselves? The answers to these questions are the starting blocks for thoughtful gifts.

For instance, instead of a bookstore voucher for the avid reader, how about a first edition of their favorite book or a signed copy by their favorite author? For the music lover, tickets to a concert of a band they love or a vinyl record to add to their collection. These gifts show that you've paid attention, invested time, and truly value the person as God loves you.

Moreover, the act of creating a gift can also be significant. A handcrafted item, a photo album of cherished memories, or even a handwritten letter can often hold more value than the most expensive gadget on the shelf. It's not about the price tag; it's about the thought that counts.

In this season of giving, let's challenge ourselves to give more than just gifts; let's share experiences, memories, and tokens of our affection that will be treasured long after the Christmas lights dim. Let's set aside the gift card mentality, embrace a more personal approach to our gift-giving, and show the love of Christ. It's an opportunity to show love, to build relationships, and to celebrate the people who make our lives rich and full.

As men, we're often not known for our shopping prowess, but we can change that narrative this Christmas. We can be the ones who give gifts that touch hearts and show our loved ones just how much they mean to us. It's a chance to reflect the love of Christ, who gave the most thoughtful gift of all—His life for our salvation.

Reflection Questions:

• How can the gifts you choose reflect your personal value and appreciation for the recipient?
• How can you make your gift-giving more meaningful and less transactional this Christmas?

Challenge:

Select a person on your gift list and think about what would bring joy to their life. Instead of buying a generic gift card, choose or create a gift that speaks to your relationship with them.