Healthy Relationships: The Seven ConnectionsSample

Introduction

There is a relationship operating system, whether in human or spiritual connections through Jesus Christ and the power of resurrection. This involves habitual talking and listening. We'll explore the seven connections inspired by Professor Steve Elzinga. These connections guide our walk with God, a metaphor seen frequently in the Bible.

Your ministry is grounded in your walk with God which is mentioned often in the New Testament. This isn't just theory; it's about ministering through the Holy Spirit and God's Word.

Fundamentally, prayer equals talking. Listening, core to our relationship with God, centers on His Word, potentially through devotions or journaling.

Repetition in these habits shapes our spiritual life. Just as personal habits impact daily life, familial and relational habits thrive similarly.

Each connection supports the others, ensuring a holistic approach to faith and relationship with God. This framework not only deepens personal spirituality but also strengthens communal and global Christian identity and mission.

Discussion/Reflection Questions:

1. Personal Spiritual Habits and Practices: How do you currently engage in habitual talking (prayer) and listening (studying God's Word) in your relationship with God? What specific practices do you find most impactful in nurturing your spiritual life, and how do they shape your understanding of your walk with God?
2. Community Impact and Church Engagement: Reflect on your involvement in small groups or church community activities. How has participating in these settings deepened your understanding of God's Word and your commitment to spiritual disciplines like prayer and communion? Share a memorable experience that illustrates the communal support and growth you've encountered.

Real World Application:

• Consistency and Growth: Commit to this practice consistently, aiming for daily engagement with Scripture, prayer, and journaling. Over time, observe how this habit deepens your relationship with God and strengthens your spiritual walk.

Closing Prayer:

• Lord, help us to cultivate a deeper habit of prayer, where we come before You with open hearts, seeking Your will and listening for Your voice. May Your Word continue to illuminate our path and shape our understanding of Your perfect love and purpose for our lives. Grant us wisdom and discernment as we apply these truths in our daily walk with You, in our families, communities, and in our service within the church and the world. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.