Advent Guide: You BelongSample

Rooted in Christ, Rooted in Love

The Christmas season has a special way of creating an atmosphere of reflection. Whether it's looking back on the year or participating in family traditions that have been going on for generations, there's a space of reflection and gratitude that tends to surface.

My family is full of diversity – from different cultures and countries represented, to being blended through the gift of foster care and adoption. As I look back on the last six Christmases, not one of them has been the same.

From celebrating as a newlywed with lots of family to the next year being in a new state without any family close by. Or, one year starting a tradition with a child who wasn't with us the next season.

In moments of reflection, I'm able to see the ever-changing dynamics that come each December. While those dynamics are in constant change, I see the foundation that has always stayed true.

Love. These traditions and moments of reflection were always rooted in love because Christ has been at the center.

Whether the holiday was spent with extended cousins and aunts singing in different languages until 2 a.m., or if it was spent hanging a handprint ornament of a child who no longer lived in our home, Jesus is still with me, and his love carries me through.

My hope is, however, that your Christmas looks this season, you're reminded God is with you because he loves you. In moments of gratitude or grief, he is with you.

If you find yourself excited to be with family or find yourself anxious, he loves you. May you be reminded no matter your family dynamic, you are part of HIS family, and I pray that brings ultimate comfort and peace this season.

Caitlyn Baten is a church engagement officer for Buckner International. She and her husband Tim have been married for six years and still consider themselves newlyweds. This is their fourth Christmas as foster and adoptive parents and are accustomed to holidays looking different each year! Caitlyn's favorite part of her family is the multiple cultures and backgrounds represented.