Learn Encouragement: 9 Ways to Build Up OthersSample

Share a Meal

To further our practice of encouraging others, consider the profound impact of sharing a meal together. Acts 20:7 recounts, "On the first day of the week we came together to break bread. Paul spoke to the people, and because he intended to leave the next day, he kept on talking until midnight." This passage highlights the significance of being present and engaged during shared meals. When you dine with someone, it conveys a deep sense of care and presence. Your body language, eye contact, and genuine listening communicate that you value their company. In today’s fast-paced world, where meals are often eaten alone or over Zoom, making the effort to share a meal can be a powerful act of encouragement and connection.

Eating together fosters meaningful relationships and opens doors for deeper conversations. In many cultures, family meals and gatherings are a cornerstone of community, yet modern Western practices often lead to isolated eating habits. For those in ministry or volunteer roles, consider using your time and resources to invite others for meals. If you’re in a bi-vocational role or volunteering, suggest to your church leaders that a portion of any potential salary be allocated for hosting dinners. This practice not only supports your ministry but also strengthens bonds with parishioners. By prioritizing shared meals, you create opportunities for fellowship and encouragement, enhancing your ability to lift others up and build a supportive community.

Discussion Question: How have shared meals or gatherings impacted your relationships with others? Can you recall a time when sharing a meal deepened your connection with someone or provided an opportunity for meaningful conversation? How can you incorporate more intentional meals into your routine to encourage and uplift those around you?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the gift of fellowship and the opportunity to connect with others over a shared meal. We ask for Your guidance as we seek to make time for these meaningful interactions in our busy lives. Help us to be fully present and attentive during these moments, showing genuine care and encouragement to those we meet. May our shared meals become a source of strength and connection, reflecting Your love and grace. Teach us to use these opportunities to deepen relationships and build up those around us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.