Christian Relationship Advice: Why Establishing a Strong Friendship MattersSample

Day 1: Communication

Without the foundation of a strong friendship while dating, communication can feel awkward and forced. But with a strong friendship, conversations flow effortlessly and meaningfully.

Establishing a strong friendship lays the foundational groundwork for you to have open, honest, and meaningful communication. In a dating relationship, this isn’t just beneficial; it’s essential. A solid friendship nurtures an environment where you both feel safe to express your thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment. This safety is built on your shared values, mutual respect, and deep understanding - key components of any successful relationship.

Proverbs 27:9 highlights the joy and comfort sincere friendship brings, illustrating how heartfelt advice and conversations can enrich our lives. When you're dating, this type of communication allows you and your partner to discuss not only the trivial details of your days but also the deeper, more significant aspects of your lives. It paves the way for discussions about your hopes, dreams, and even fears, allowing each of you to truly know and support the other.

The Bible encourages us to love one another as Christ loves us, and this love is reflected in the way we communicate. Effective communication in your relationship is a reflection of this love, where listening and speaking are done with kindness and understanding.

A friendship-based relationship is also resilient, capable of withstanding the inevitable challenges that life throws at you. When your communication is strong, you can address misunderstandings and conflicts with grace and empathy, looking to God for guidance. This strengthens your relationship and glorifies God because it models the love and patience He shows you.

Having a solid friendship with the person you're dating really opens up the lines of communication, making it easier to share your thoughts and feelings honestly and support each other through anything.