The Value of Generosity: A 3-Day Marriage PlanSample

A Pitcher’s Dream

"A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed."(Proverbs 11:25)

In 1985, Tim Burke achieved a lifelong dream—in fact, almost every boy’s dream—when he signed to pitch for the Montreal Expos. He quickly proved his worth by setting a record for the most relief appearances by a rookie.

In the years that followed, Tim and his wife, Christine, adopted four children born with serious illnesses or defects. Neither Tim nor Christine was prepared for the tremendous demands such a family would bring. And with a grueling schedule, Tim was seldom around to help.

In 1993, only three months after signing a new, $600,000 contract, Tim decided to retire. When asked about his amazing decision, he said, “Baseball is going to do just fine without me. But I’m the only father my children have.”

You might ask yourself, “Does my current lifestyle, dreams and goals, fit with God’s desire that I have a generous spirit?” Tim Burke’s generous spirit caused him to give up his career dream, as well as the wealth it brought. Yet in the end, his act will be worth the sacrifice—his marriage and the well‐being of four lives God placed in his care will reap eternal dividends. That’s God’s idea of a brilliant career move!

Questions for Today . . .

• Have you ever had to give up any of your dreams for someone?
• How do you feel now about those old dreams?
• What new dreams do you have for yourself?

Prayer . . .

Dear Lord, we surrender together whatever selfish dreams or ambitions are keeping us from the larger life You have in mind for us. Show us Your better idea. We want to do Your will with joy and expectation because we trust You. Amen.

(Excerpted from Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Couples. Used with permission.)

Bonus Content: How to Honor God by Saying No

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