Leaving and Loving

Read Genesis 31:11–16

Reflection

People feel drawn to the place they came from, whether it is their country of birth or the town they grew up in. We are attached to the people and places that give us meaning and a sense of belonging. You might be in your hometown right now, or you might be far away from it. Sometimes, we don’t move out of choice and, just like Jacob, always hope to return to where we came from.

When God finally spoke to Jacob and told him to go, Jacob knew he had to set a plan in motion. He wanted to move with his family but knew this would mean taking them from their home and moving to somewhere foreign. Surprisingly, Leah and Rachel didn’t seem to have any hesitation to leave their land to follow Jacob. Just like that old saying, perhaps they felt that "home is where the heart is". They had noticed that their father was beginning to squander the family inheritance and their primary concern was what was best for their children. They also seemed to have turned a new leaf in their relationship by agreeing with each other and listening to what God had called them to do.

Looking out for our whānau is important. Sometimes, we just have to make decisions that are in the best interest of our siblings, parents, spouses, children, and anyone else considered family. While a place can be important, our relationship and care for our family is the most important thing. God created families as a blessing – take some time to be grateful for your blessings.

Consider and Pray

What sacrifices have you had to make for your family? Pray that you would continue to make choices that would lead to blessing those you are closest to.