Biblical Leadership: 5 Steps to Know God’s WillExemplo

Step 2. Pray

The Bible is important, but time in prayer with God is what really clarifies His will for your life and leadership. Prayer is important because it is a personal two-way communication channel between you and God. It can bring clarity and wisdom where you otherwise might flounder. 

But remember, God wants a relationship with you, so prayer is not just about solving problems! However, as you deepen your relationship with God through prayer, it becomes easier to know His will for your life and your leadership.

So how to pray? In the spirit of practical guidance – and definitely not as the only way – we offer the following structure, which has been used by many leaders and saints through the ages: A-C-T-S.

A: Adoration

Entering your prayer time resembles entering a holy place, so it makes sense to first assume a posture of reverence and humility. After all, you are the created one and God is your Creator. You are mortal, finite, and limited; God is immortal, infinite, and unlimited.

Start by humbling yourself, placing your time and talents at God’s disposal. Give everything over to Him, in a posture of worship and thanksgiving. 

C: Confession

Once you’ve completed a period of adoration for your great God, examine yourself and consider what might be hindering your ability to follow God’s plan. Confess any shortcomings or missed opportunities, asking for forgiveness and a fresh start.

Confession and honesty about yourself is important. Re-read what the Bible says about this in 1 John 1:9-10.

T: Thankfulness

After a time of reflection and forgiveness, it’s hard not to be thankful to God for all He has given you. Even so, the enemy wants you to think that you are missing out, and how you deserve better. Flee from that! 

Focus on what God has already given; stay close to Him and do not follow the ways of the world. List the blessings you already have, and then ask God to show you more. 

S: Supplication

After these first three steps, it is time to pour out your heart and seek God’s help. If you don’t what to say, you may just groan before Him; He already knows your need and is glad to hear from you in whatever form it takes.

Now, be still before God. Let your thoughts roll around in your head; don’t try to solve any problems, but just enjoy the ideas and peace that God will give.

As you finish, you may not have all the answers or have even heard anything, but as you come back to God again and again in a time of prayer, He will show you His will and plan for your life and leadership.

Reflection / Application

1. How do your prayers compare to the strategy outlined above? Can the 4-step outline presented above help make your prayers more effective?
2. Prayer is not only a dedicated time as outlined above, but can (and should) also take place “on-the-go” throughout the day. How is your prayer time split between these two styles?
3. Which of the 4 steps outline is most difficult or un-natural for you? Why?