Day 2: The Vinedresser

Even Paul had to walk away from his partner in ministry, Peter. He felt that Peter was leaning theologically too deeply into a works-based gospel, and He did not agree. So, a separation was needed.

They agreed to disagree, but ultimately it was important that they went on their own journeys.

Sometimes it is not a salvation issue that causes a separation. It is not always Christian versus non-Christian. It could be as simple as having a difference in opinion.

Separation does not have to be messy, and it does not mean that the person you must disconnect from is doomed. It simply means that there is something that exists that is impeding your specific growth and development, so it must be plucked out.

The removal process is necessary in the life of anything or anyone who seeks to grow and have longevity and success.

In John 15, the Bible gives an amazing visual that perfectly depicts the dynamic of removal that God has with His people. Imagine a vineyard that is tended to by God as the vinedresser. In the vineyard, Jesus would be the vine, and we as believers would be the branches that are connected to Him.

Anyone who has experience with gardening would agree that branches that do not bear fruit need to be pruned or cut away so that something stronger can grow in its place. A good gardener does this swiftly so that he yields his desired harvest.

It is time to allow God to prune you and your circle. Everything and everyone connected to you that is not bearing good fruit must be severed so that you can become fruitful.

Reflect:

Bad relationships are like split ends. They will continue to spread damage until they are cut off completely. Are you willing to allow God to sever some ties in your life so that you can thrive, or do you feel some resistance?

If you are willing and ready, great! If you are experiencing some resistance, this is normal. Dig deeper into that resistance, and question why you may feel it is better to keep something that God is trying to remove. After you process, ask God to change your heart to desire what He desires, and ask Him for His eyes to see the need for the removal as He sees it.