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Will you choose gratitude when corrected?
Many of you work for, are married to, or are the child of someone who is constantly looking for what is wrong with what you say or do. At least that’s your perception. He or she is a micro-manager, trying to make sure everything is going well, and not trusting you to be a responsible person to take care of things properly. Whether from fear of his superiors, or just a strong sense of control, these people are difficult to work with, and very difficult to live with. We know we need to honor them, but it feels like hugging a cactus.
Pressure reveals and exposes our hearts. We want to believe the problem is with the other person, and maybe some of it is. But we are only responsible for ourselves and the way we respond.
What if we took a different approach? What if, rather than being frustrated when corrected, we were pro-active and asked for feedback? What if we started asking what we could do better without waiting to be told?
To your boss: How can I best serve you today?
To your husband or wife: Tell me one or two things that I could work on that would make your life easier.
A teen to your parent: Tell me a weak point you recognize in me that could be developed and made stronger.
Asking for feedback shines light in the hidden places we don’t see. It brings awareness, another set of eyes recognizing what we may not detect.
Prayer is a great form of receiving feedback, as is reading scripture and comparing our hearts to His. We fall short, I know. But as we learn more of Who He is, and as our desires conform to His, we will welcome feedback to expose the blind places in our hearts. We will exchange resentment and stagnation for gratitude and growth.
Are you finding yourself offended and resistant? Go ask those hard questions. It’s only pride and immaturity that hold us back. Ask God and others to reveal your blind spots. You, and the people you are around, will be better for it.
Choose feedback and correction. It will bring gratitude instead of resentment.
About this Plan
Life is a series of choices, each determining the trajectory it will take. Will we choose allowing our hearts to be changed by God's Word which leads to life? Or will we default to our human nature, a passive choice leading to death?
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