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If you weren’t you, would you like yourself? Would you be your friend?  It’s a weird question, I know, but how you answer that question can actually say a lot about you.  In fact, the next time you are with family or friends ask that question to the people you’re with.  It can lead to some really great conversation!

Let me be clear. I’m not talking about doing whatever it takes for people to like you in order to boost your self-esteem or popularity. I’m talking about expanding your sphere of influence. 

Think about the likability of Jesus. People were drawn to him. They followed him around. He was intriguing. He was likable.

Here are nine simple ways to become more likable:

1. Smile. You often get a smile when you give a smile.
2. Be friendly. Be open and interested in others more than yourself.
3. Pay attention to your resting face. Watch what your face says.
4. Be real. Align your words and your actions.
5. Be conversationally generous. Listen more and talk less.
6. Connect with others. Ask about their passions.
7. Show empathy. Walk in another person’s shoes.
8. Maximize humor. Laugh at yourself.
9. Love more. Find tangible ways to show you care.

Want to make friends? Explore your likability factor. If I care about what the Bible teaches and the way Jesus lived, considering how I engage with and connect to others matters.  When we make that a priority, people are drawn to us, resulting in better friendships and more opportunities to share the story of how Jesus has changed us. When people like you, there is a greater chance they will like him.