Stand Firm: 10 Truths Every High School Girl Should KnowSample

If you take a look around your school or scroll your Instagram feed, it won’t take long to notice what methods get young women the most attention. Barely-there clothing, suggestive dancing, raunchy jokes—these are surefire ways to grab the spotlight. But what is painted as “empowerment” is actually a trap, and this is clear in God’s Word. He calls you to a higher standard when it comes to the way you dress, the way you talk, and the way you act. Not to restrict you but to protect you.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to express yourself and show off your individuality. In fact, that desire is the image of God reflected in you. He loves to show off His creativity and did so in the unique way He made you. The key to remember is that God’s desire for you is to live a set-apart life that glorifies Him, and your thoughts, actions, and the way you present yourself should all align with that desire.

Our culture bombards us with lies that tell us our value is based on our ability to attract attention—whether through your appearance or the way you conduct yourself. But the truth is that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, a dwelling place of God Himself. Your worth is not determined by how others perceive you, but by the fact that you were bought with a price—the precious blood of Jesus. So, aim to glorify God with your body, by embracing His call to live a pure, set-apart life.

• What does it mean to honor God with your body? What does it mean for the way you dress, take care of yourself, or interact with others?
• How does honoring God with your body impact your self-esteem and sense of worth?
• Are there any specific boundaries or guidelines you'd like to discuss together or establish for yourself regarding clothing choices, media consumption, or relationships?