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“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offence” (Prov. 19:11 NIV)
Love is patient for a reason. Your spouse is a unique individual, so they will do things differently from you and may have habits you find annoying. It’s important to remember that not every annoyance warrants a response. This is especially true when tensions are running high - minor inconveniences are easily blown out of proportion. So, it becomes important not to allow emotions to control you, to exercise patience, and let go of trivial things.
So how do you not sweat the small stuff? Here are a few things you can do:
- Make it a habit to pause, take a deep breath, and count to ten before reacting.
- Ask yourself, ‘will this matter in a year’s time’?
- Remember that you can’t control everything.
- Give your spouse the benefit of a doubt – they probably aren’t intentionally trying to annoy you.
Other proverbs to reflect on: Proverbs 10:12, Proverbs 15:18, Proverbs 17:14
About this Plan
The book of Proverbs has a lot to teach us about how we use and respond to words. Using contrast, the book accentuates the differences between wise and foolish communication. It also advises on how to live in ways that avoid problems and promote harmony in a marital relationship. This plan explores these proverbs and provides practical tips for couples.
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