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Kuyini ukuqhathanisa?

Ukuqhathanisa kuyindlela noma ukubonakaliswa kokungavikeleki. Ivela ekuntuleni. Ukuntula ubuwena. Ukungabi nenhloso. Ukungazithembi ukuthi singobani kanye nempilo esiyinikiwe.

Ukungazethembi kuvela ekukholweni amanga nokungazi noma ukukholelwa ukuthi singobani bangempela. Ngakho lapho siziqhathanisa nabanye, empeleni sisuke sithi, “Angazi noma angikholelwa ukuthi ngingubani, futhi angazi noma angikholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ungubani.”

Siqhathanisa ngoba sifuna umuzwa wokuphepha ngaphandle kwethu. Ukuthi siyazi noma singazi sihlala sifuna lapho siwela khona esigabeni sempilo. Sifuna ukwazi indawo yethu ekuphileni, lapho siwa khona nokuthi silingana kanjani nabanye ngenxa yokuthi asinawo umuzwa wokulondeka okufanele uvele ngaphakathi.

Iqiniso, abanye bethu baqhathanisa nokuntula ukuzethemba. Abantu abanenkinga yokuqhathanisa bangase bangaboni ukuthi babusisekile, banesiphiwo futhi banekhono kangakanani ngoba bagxile kakhulu kwabanye. Abanye abaningi bangase baqhathanise ngenxa yesimo sabo sokuncintisana nokufuna ukuphelela. Abantu bohlobo A baqhutshwa yilolu hlobo. Uvamise ukuba ungcono kakhulu ezintweni, umholi ohamba phambili, owesilisa noma owesifazane we-alpha weqembu lakho noma umphakathi ngakho ukuthambekela kwakho kokuqhathanisa kuvela esifisweni sakho sokuhlala uphezulu. Ukuba ohamba phambili kukunikeza umuzwa wokulondeka, kodwa akusona isivikelo esihlala njalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani uqhathanisa kufanele sivume ukuthi ukuqhathanisa akulokothi kuholele ekuthobekeni kweqiniso, okujabulisa uNkulunkulu.

Ukuqhathanisa futhi kuyisela. Uzwile kuthiwa: "Ukuqhathanisa kubulala ukwaneliseka." “Ukuqhathanisa kuyisela lenjabulo.” “Ukuqhathanisa kubulala ithonya lakho.”

Ukuqhathanisa kuyantshontsha, kubulala futhi kucekele phansi izingqondo nezinhliziyo zethu. Ngenxa yalokhu, sibona ukuqhathanisa njengethuluzi lesitha. Isitha sakho siyakuzonda futhi asisoze sakwenza lutho ukuze sinciphise ukuphila kukaNkulunkulu kuwe, ukuphila okugcwele nokuchichimayo akuthembisayo. Uma sivumela ukuqhathanisa sinika isitha indawo yokuma ezimpilweni zethu futhi asikwazi ukuzwa konke uNkulunkulu anakho ngathi.

Ngeke singaziqhathanisi ngamabomu kodwa isilingo nengozi yokuqhathanisa ihlezi iphambi kwethu ngoba ukuqhathanisa kuyisono. Kodwa njenganoma yisiphi isono, kufanele sizibophezele endleleni yokuphila ekude nesono futhi kude nokuqhathaniswa.

Ingabe uqhathanisa nokuntula ukuzethemba, noma emcabangweni wamanga wokulondeka ukuze ube ongcono kakhulu?

Nkosi, ngiyavuma ukuthambekela kwami ​​​​ukuziqhathanisa nabanye. Kwesinye isikhathi ngikwenza ngingazi. Ngifuna ukwazi kangcono ukuthi Ungubani futhi ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi ngingubani ngenxa Yakho. Ngifisa ukuzethemba kwangaphakathi okuvela ebuhlotsheni bami nawe. Sesha inhliziyo yami ungibonise umsuka wokuthi kungani ngilwa nokuqhathanisa futhi ungikhulule eGameni likaJesu!