Thola i AppNgikhungathwe Izibusiso Zami (Ingxenye 4)Isampula
Ngiyoke ngikwazi ukufundisa izingane zami konke ezidinga ukukwazi? Kuthiwani uma nginabo esikoleni esingafanele, noma ngiphuthelwe umdlalo okungenzeka ukuthi baphumelele kuwo? Kuthiwani uma bekufanele babe ngabaculi futhi singenazo izindlela ezidingekayo ukuze bafunde? Kuthiwani uma ngingenele kubo? Kuthiwani uma ngibabhedisa?
Nguwe umama. Kufanele ube khona kubo futhi uqiniseke ukuthi bahamba ngendlela efanele futhi awehluleki. Kunjalo?
Ukwesaba kwethu okungapheli kanye nokukhathazeka ngokuba “umama olungile,” okuhlanganisa zonke izisekelo, nokunikeza amathuba afanele kuyakhathaza. Sizithola sinethemba lokuthi ngeke kudingeke ukuthi bachithe iminyaka yabo yobudala kusofa wabelaphi ngenxa yethu. Konke kungaphezu kwamandla futhi kusishiya sinemibuzo ngekusasa.
Ngandlela thize, sibekwe isimo sokukholelwa ukuthi umama uyikho konke. Siphelele. Siyazi ukuthi omama bethu abakwazanga ukuhlangabezana nalokho okulindelekile, nokho sinombono wokuthi sizohluka. Sibengcono.
Yima kancane. Ngikuphathele izindaba: awanele.
Ingabe umoya usanda kuphuma emaphashini akho? Donsa umoya kakhulu bese usho nami, “Anganele ezinganeni zami.”
Futhi lokho kulungile. Kungaphezu kokulungile, futhi yingakho: Ukube sanele ezinganeni zethu, ngabe asikho isidingo sikaJesu! Sanikezwa isikhathi esifushane ukuze sibonise uthando lwakhe kubo, sibafundise izindlela zakhe, futhi sibakhulise ngendlela okufanele bahambe ngayo—ebheke kuye! Ubizo oluphezulu, lukhulu kunolunye.
Izindaba ezinhle kakhulu kithi ukuthi uthanda izingane zethu ngaphezu kwethu, okubonakala kungenakwenzeka. Uyoqinisekisa ukuthi bafunda konke abakudingayo, banakho konke abakudingayo, futhi babe yikho konke abakudingayo. Ngoba Wanele!
Manje, ngethemba, lokhu kuqaphela nesimemezelo kukunikeza inkululeko entsha osanda kuyithola! Ithumele kwinothi ozoyibuka kaningi: Angenele, kodwa Ukhona! Sengathi ungayeka ukuzishaya, uthwale icala lakho, kunalokho uqale ukuhamba ngokukhululeka namuhla.
“Alukho ubizo oluphakeme empilweni kunomsebenzi wokuzala nokukhulisa abantwana uNkulunkulu athembile ukuba sibanakekele. ~ Udkt James Dobson
Baba, ngiyabonga ukuthi sekwanele. Ngisize ngiphumule kulelo qiniso, ngikholwa ukuthi Uhambe phambi kwami futhi wenzela izingane zami indlela, namanje. Ngisize ngiphile enkululekweni engenele, kodwa ukuthi Wena ungaphezu kokwanele! Sengathi ukuthula kwakho nobukhona bakho bugcwala inhliziyo yami njengoba ngiphumula kuwe, ngithembela Wena ngekusasa labantwana bami.
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