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Sonke sinokucasuka noma ukhubeka okungaba khona ezimpilweni zethu. Mhlawumbe abanye bazizwa bebakhulu, mhlawumbe abanye bebancane, kepha bonke bayithuba elihle lokuzijwayeza ukuxolela. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa: 

. Umndeni uwonkana. Ngibe nengxoxo emnandi nomngani wami ngesinye isikhathi mayelana nokuhlangana nomndeni ngesikhathi samaholide. Kunomuntu osekhulile emndenini wakhe onenkani kakhulu, othanda ukhetha futhi ogxekayo. Ngendlela umngani wami akuchaze ngayo ukuthi lo muntu "uthatha wonke umndeni awuthumbe" - okusho ukuthi abafuni ukwenza lokhu noma lokhuya--, ngeke badle lokhu nalokhuya, izinto kumele zenziwe ngendlela ethile, abanye abakwenzi kahle, njll. Ngangibona ukuthi kwakucindezela kakhulu kumngane wami. Kungaba nokuhlukahluka okuningi kulesihloko, kepha imvamisa umuntu oyedwa (noma ngaphezulu) angashintsha amandla emndenini. Ngikholelwa ngokuphelele ekubekeni imingcele enempilo, enengqondo yabantu abanjalo (ngisho nezihlobo). Kepha qiniseka ukuthi uthethelela kuqala. Ukubathethelela (imvamisa uma kunesidingo!) kunokukhuluma ngabo noma ukwesaba ubukhona babo, kwenza uNkulunkulu akwazi ukuhamba ezimpilweni zabo. Kuyasiza futhi ukugcina ukuthula kwakho! KwabaseRoma 14:19 uthi: Ngalokho-ke asijonge okokuthula nokokwakhana.  

. Ukudelelwa. Kulula kakhulu ukucasuka (nokubamba igqubu) lapho othile esiphatha kabi noma engasiniki okufanele kwethu. Mhlawumbe uphakamisela umuntu isandla futhi akazange abuyisele ukuphakamisa isandla emuva. Mhlawumbe othile usho okuthile kuwe ngezwi elingalungile noma ukubukeka kobuso, noma mhlawumbe bakhulume phansi noma bakwenza uzizwe uyisiphukuphuku. Noma mhlawumbe othile akawuphendulanga umbhalo wakho noma ucingo lwakho, bese uqala ukucabanga zonke izizathu zokuthi: “Mhlawumbe uyahlanya…noma uyangizonda…noma uyisicefe…yilokho-ke ngeke ngisakhuluma naye futhi…”lapho empeleni kungaba khona isizathu esihle impela. Esikhundleni sokuthatha izinto ngesiqu, ngilimale noma ngithukuthele ngenxa yokuphathwa kabi noma ngenziwe ngizizwe ngiyisilima, ngingahle ngiphakamise ukuthi ngixolele esikhundleni salokho? Izaga 12:16 zithi, ukukhathazeka kwesiwula kuyaziwa ngosuku,kepha oqondile uyasibekela ihlazo (ZUL) Ukuthethelela kukuvumela ukuthi uhambe futhi ukhohlwe (ukukususa) ungavumeli ubuhlungu noma ukucasuka kukunamathele kuwe.