Indlela Yokuphila YokuthethelelaIsampula

A Lifestyle of Forgiveness

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Lapho Umuntu Ehlukumeza Ukulindela Kwakho

Sonke sinokulindela, usuku nosuku. Silindele ukuthi abantu benze ngendlela ethile. Silindele ukuthi izinto zihambe ngendlela ethile. Silindele ukuqondwa noma ukwaziswa. Kepha amathuba akho konke okwenzeka ngendlela esiqonde ngayo ukuthi kube - ziqinise - AWEKHO. 

Nsuku zonke, ezimweni eziyikhulu ezahlukene, ukulindela kwakho kuzophulwa. Besingakhuluma ngayo yonke indlela engenzeka ngayo, kepha leyo ngenye incwadi. Okwamanje, ngithemba uMoya oNgcwele ozokukhumbuza lokhu uma ukudinga - ukukusiza uqaphele lapho amathemba akho ephuliwe, futhi akusize uxolele ngokushesha futhi kalula uma kwenzeka. 

Uhlu lungaqhubeka luqhubeke. Othile ukukusika endleleni, noma ukusika umugqa esitolo, noma ukubamba eyokugcina into obuyifuna ngempela. Noma kunini lapho uthola khona umuzwa yo "phuzo", lapho unamahloni, udabukile, uthukuthele, wenqatshiwe, noma ulimele - lezo yizinkathi zokuzibuza, "Ngabe kukhona umuntu engidinga ukumxolela, ukuze ngihambe ngokukhululeka?" 

Futhi ake ngingeze lokhu: kwesinye isikhathi uyazi ukuthi othile ubengahlosile ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu, futhi uyabona ukuthi awunangqondo ngento engabalulekile. Ungahle ucabange, "Angidingi ukubaxolela - akuyona into enkulu leyo, ngiyazi ukuthi ngiyabaxaka ngakho." Nanku umthetho wami: uma ubucabanga ngakho ngaphezu kokuphindwe kabili, vele uqhubeke ubathethelele! 

Lapho owesilisa efaka okuthile okungenangqondo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi usalokhu uxakwe ngakho uma ufika emsebenzini ofuna ukutshela wonke umuntu, vele uqhubeke umxolele. Lapho leyo ntokazi esitolo ikudelela kangangokuba ube nengxoxo engokomfanekiso ekhanda lakho yonke indlela yonke eya ekhaya (“Bekufanele ngikusho lokhu, futhi lapho esho lokho, Bengizothi lokhu…! ”) vele uqhubeke umxolele. 

Ngikholwa ukuthi uma sikwazi ukuxolela ezintweni ezincane, zansuku zonke, sizozijwayeza ukukwenza izintweni ezinkulu ngempela. Futhi, sizophila impilo yokuthula futhi sibe ngofakazi abahle. 

Ingabe loluhlelo belilusizo kuwe? Luthathwe encwadini yami ethi “Ngiyakuxolela, Kepha…” Ungakwazi funda ingxenye yokuqala lapha.

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Mayelana naloluHlelo

A Lifestyle of Forgiveness

Sonke sikesaba nezinto ezinkulu, ezibuhlungu kakhulu ezenzeka kithina, futhi ukuthethelela kuyisihluthulelo sokukhululeka ebuhlungwini besikhathi esedlule. Kepha kuthiwani uma sihlose ukuphila ngendlela yokuthethelela - lapho kungekho lutho olusikhathazayo, lapho ngisho nokulimala okuncane kumane kusisakaze njengamanzi emhlane wedada? Leyo impilo yenkululeko uNkulunkulu asifunela yona!

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Sithanda ukubonga Karen Jensen Salisbury ngokunikela ngalolu hlelo. Ukuthola eminye imininingwane, sicela uvakashele ku: http://karenjensen.org